Hi, I'm Dr. Mavis!

The Midlife 'DreamAgain' Coach, Clinical Psychologist

& a Bada$$ Mom!

I guide high-performing midlife women living from what we psychologists call Savior Complex—managing everyone's emotions, fixing everyone's problems, sacrificing your dreams so everyone else can chase theirs—to step boldly into their next era: to DreamAgain.

Whether you're navigating an empty nest, divorce, retirement, or career shift, exhausted from over-functioning and putting yourself last, as someone who's walked this exact path—through loss, cancer, heartbreak, and decades of living from Savior Complex—Dr. Mavis honors who you've been, releases what no longer serves you, and designs a life you truly love.

Through a sacred, faith-guided approach rooted in a proven, repeatable system of total transformation, this work reconnects you with your Divine Truth, breaks you free from Savior Complex, co-creates a bold vision for what's next, and takes inspired action toward the life you truly love.

This isn't about grinding harder. It's about recognizing your assignment isn't to manage everyone else's life—it's to LIVE yours. You're not too old. It's not too late. You absolutely deserve to DreamAgain.

You're not here by accident. You poured love into everyone and everything—and that mattered. It shaped lives. It built legacies. But your assignment was never to lose yourself in the process. Your assignment now is to choose yourself—by choosing to LIVE your life.

This is your turning point:

🌱Vision over victim

🌱DreamBuilder over Savior Complex

🌱Design over default

That dream you set aside?

It's been waiting. Whispering…

What if this is the moment you finally listen?

My Journey:

Growing up as the eldest in a family of 8—we didn't have much, but my parents worked incredibly hard to provide. They each worked two jobs. And my role became clear: caretaker, big sister, substitute mom—the 'Do It All'.

That early socialization anchored beliefs deep inside me: "If I don't manage it, it won't get done. If I don't fix it, someone will suffer. If I say no, I'm being selfish."

Then I grew up... got educated, got married, built a career, had a family.

And I became the mom who managed everyone's emotions. The wife who did it all. The professional who held back her truth—afraid it might be "too much."

I didn't realize it, but I was exhausted.

Then came 2016. My husband's Stage 4 lung cancer diagnosis. Our 15-month journey together. His death in 2017.

Loss became my greatest teacher.

In the aftermath, I poured myself into helping others—first women overcoming addiction, then widows navigating grief.

I was using my pain as a compass through the darkness.

But even in service, the old pattern remained: manage everyone's emotions, fix everyone's problems, sacrifice my dreams so others could chase theirs.

Until one quiet moment with God, reading Matthew 26—Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane.

And it hit me:

Even JESUS—the ACTUAL Savior—had boundaries.

He said no. He withdrew. He let people face their own consequences.

If Jesus had boundaries... why was I living like I couldn't?

That revelation forced me to confront a hard truth: I'd been teaching women about Savior Complex for years—helping them see how childhood patterns of over-functioning become adult patterns of exhaustion.

But I hadn't fully released my own.

When you learn at an early age that your value equals your usefulness, a belief forms: obligation and adult responsibility become your identity. And that belief doesn't just go away. It goes underground. It becomes the invisible pattern running your life. And under stress? It resurfaces.

I realized: I'd been confusing love with labor.

So I did the work. I changed my thought:

"I've raised them. I've empowered them. I've shown up fully. Now my assignment is to live MY life—not manage theirs—and let my freedom show them what's available to them, too."

I applied the very framework I teach: New thought. Transformed feeling. Generated action. New RESULT!

And at that moment, something clicked. I poured love into everyone and everything—and I cherish every moment of it because it shaped lives. Built legacies. Mattered deeply. But my assignment was never to lose myself in the process. So my assignment now? LIVE fully, unapologetically—while STILL loving my people. Not from exhaustion. From overflow.

Now? I guide high-performing midlife women through the same transformation—from Savior Complex to DreamAgain.

Because when you've walked through the fire, you know how to guide others through theirs.

"I'VE DONE THE HARD WORK"

The Hard Work Has Been Done — So You Don't Have to Walk This Path Alone.

Staring down cancer. Navigating grief. Rebuilding from isolation. These weren't just challenges — they were profound teachers that reshaped everything.

Through it all, one truth became crystal clear: Life doesn't just happen to you — you create it.

Throughout this journey, many roles have been embraced. Many challenges have been faced. And through it all, one thing has been proven: we are not defined by our circumstances.

Our identities are shaped by our choices — and the clarity of our vision.

Each obstacle has revealed that true strength doesn't come from the situations we face — it comes from our capacity to transcend them, fueled by our dreams and our Bada$$ery.

This is the essence of living a life by Design — not Default.

A life overflowing with purpose. A life filled with endless possibilities.

A life where you DreamAgain — and make those dreams your reality.

EVEN JESUS HAD BOUNDARIES. SO CAN YOU.

You've spent years managing everyone's emotions. Fixing everyone's problems. Sacrificing your dreams so others could chase theirs. But what if your assignment now is to live YOUR life—and let your freedom show them what's possible?

Your DreamAgain journey starts NOW…

Transform your life with personalized coaching designed to help you achieve clarity, confidence, and purpose. Take the first step toward reaching your true potential and embracing a more fulfilling path. Your journey to growth and empowerment starts here.

Begin today—your best self awaits.

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